Certain unfriendly factors can effortlessly nip a
child’s ambition in the bud if left unchecked. It’s an established fact that
most adults who are obvious opposite of what they should have been,
are undisputed victims of certain avoidable factors we hardly take into consideration.
Even the highly successful individuals the world is currently celebrating, came face to face with some of these factors at their formative years, but the intervention of their parent, guardian, and of course, a kind hearted adult made all the difference. Parents must be conscious of the fact that a child’s ambition is certainly vulnerable and can be ruined by the following factors:
Even the highly successful individuals the world is currently celebrating, came face to face with some of these factors at their formative years, but the intervention of their parent, guardian, and of course, a kind hearted adult made all the difference. Parents must be conscious of the fact that a child’s ambition is certainly vulnerable and can be ruined by the following factors:
1.
Unhealthy criticism
As always, parents constitute a first class influence
in the life of their children and there rests the foundation of whatever
they’ll become later in life. A child whose parent reiterates that he lacks
what it takes to become what he wishes to be in life may trust the words of his
parent and consequently give up on his ambition.
Conversely, a child whose parent repeatedly
acquaints him with the fact that he’s quite capable of becoming anything
he wishes to become, cultivates trust regarding his ability to soar impressively in
life. Pointing sustainably to ridiculous reasons why your child will not get to
the top is certainly the cheapest way to ruin his ambition.
2.
Mid – way turbulence
This implies disguised difficulties a child may
experience on his flight to the top. They include, though, not limited to fluctuations in his
expectations, failure, intimidation, rejection, stagnation, and relegation. It’s a prominent
phase that’s responsible for the reason why supposed successful individuals are
gross opposite of what they should have been.
In order to pierce through this phase unhurt, the experience of a seasoned parent must be employed. You are expected to keep an eye on these phase as well as ensuring that your children are given a safe flight with the help of your experience.
In order to pierce through this phase unhurt, the experience of a seasoned parent must be employed. You are expected to keep an eye on these phase as well as ensuring that your children are given a safe flight with the help of your experience.
3. Excessive confidence
Being confident isn’t out of place, but excessive
confidence can cheaply blind an ambitious child against hard work and consequently
impel him to a pit of devastating failure. It has dealt decisively with most
confident individuals and sadly, most of them couldn’t survive.
Excessive confidence is one ancient snare parents should draw their children’s attention to, because it hardly spares it prey. Pride goes before a fall, so, despite the depth of a child’s prowess, if he flaunts excessive confidence, failure can comfortably prevail and consequently ruin his ambition.
Excessive confidence is one ancient snare parents should draw their children’s attention to, because it hardly spares it prey. Pride goes before a fall, so, despite the depth of a child’s prowess, if he flaunts excessive confidence, failure can comfortably prevail and consequently ruin his ambition.
4. Crooked friends
Bluntly, a child who’s surrounded by friends with
questionable attitude is doomed in advance. Your child’s friends fall into the
category of first class influencers who can effortlessly lure him to act in
certain ways that may constitute a clog in the wheel of his ambition. Naturally, children’s ability to resist temptation is quite poor; this is why parents
must keep an eye on the type of friends their children are keeping.
5. Impatience
We are certainly in an era where patience is
constantly thrown to the wind; an era where children want to get to the top
overnight, disregarding standard procedure and hard work. When it comes to
ruining people’s ambition, impatience is a force to watch.
As always, impatient prides in pushing ambitious individuals into making avoidable mistakes that are capable of bursting their chances of succeeding. As parent, it's solely your responsibility to acquaint your children with the tragic disaster that’s associated with impatience.
As always, impatient prides in pushing ambitious individuals into making avoidable mistakes that are capable of bursting their chances of succeeding. As parent, it's solely your responsibility to acquaint your children with the tragic disaster that’s associated with impatience.
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